The velvet-texture harness’s adjustable nylon straps ensure a perfect fit up to 72” (183 cm) hips, while padded front and back panels protect your sensitive areas during vigorous play.
This set includes a slim, 5.25" silicone dildo perfect for exploring, and secures via an interchangeable 1.25" rubber O-Ring.
A built-in pocket in the front panel makes space for your favorite bullet vibe (not included).
The harness is machine washable making cleanup a breeze.
Harness & dildo set features:
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Materials: polypropylene, polyester, polyurethane foam, hook and loop, ABS plastic, nitrile O-ring, body-safe silicone dildo
- Can be used hands-free after initial placement
- Dildo included
Size and material:
- Dildo length: 5.25" / 13.3 cm
- Interchangeable rubber O-Ring 1.25" / 3.2 cm
- 4-way adjustable harness fits up to 72" / 183 cm
🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating
This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup
Solid choice, not always first pick but glad it's there. Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.
Who is this harness & dildo set for?
This harness & dildo set is ideal for:
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People looking for strap-on basics—a solid and accessible kit for first-timers or occasional users.
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Folks with ED or who experience premature ejaculation, looking for ways to prolong partner penetration or try something new.
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Partners exploring gender-affirming intimacy—especially affirming for vulva-owners wanting to penetrate their partner.
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Couples exploring pegging or role reversal with a non-intimidating, beginner-friendly size.
How to use the harness & dildo set?
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Adjust the harness to comfortably fit your hips and thighs using the 4-way adjustable straps. Ensure it’s snug but not too tight.
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Insert the dildo through the front O-Ring (already attached to the harness). Make sure it's centered and secure.
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Add optional stimulation by placing a bullet vibrator (not included) inside the front panel pocket.
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Apply water-based lubricant to the dildo to reduce friction and increase comfort.
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Once positioned, check that everything feels good and allows movement. You’re ready to play!
Great positions to try:
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Missionary style: Face-to-face connection and easy angle adjustments.
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From behind (doggy or spooning): Great for depth control with less eye contact—perfect for fantasy exploration.
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On top (rider variation): Partner sits or kneels while the wearer lies back, offering control to the receiving partner.
How to clean and care for the harness & dildo set?
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Harness: Remove the dildo and O-ring, then machine wash the harness on a gentle cycle. Let it air dry completely.
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Dildo: Wash with warm water and mild soap or use a body-safe toy cleaner. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry.
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Lubricant compatibility: Use water-based lubricant only with the silicone dildo to preserve the material.
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Storage: Store components separately in a cool, dry place. Avoid direct sunlight and don’t store the dildo touching other silicone toys.
Harness & dildo set practical use info:
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Can be used hands-free once the harness is properly adjusted and dildo is secured.
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Dildo is included, making this a convenient all-in-one kit for play right out of the box.
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Helpful for folks with limited hand mobility who want assistance with penetration.
Additional information:
- May help folks who experience erectile dysfunction, early ejaculation, or difficulty maintaining an erection during sex.
- Can provide affirming experiences for trans or nonbinary users looking for more control or alignment with how they want to experience their body during sex.
Special considerations when using harness & dildo set:
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Mobility and flexibility: Wearers will need dexterity and reach to put on the harness, adjust it, and position the dildo securely.
User experience tips:
- Warm the dildo under lukewarm water before use—it mimics body temperature for a more lifelike experience.
- Trim pubic hair or wear under tight-fitting underwear when placing and adjusting the harness to avoid tugging or discomfort.
- If the O-ring feels too tight or loose, consider swapping it—the ring is interchangeable and sizing options can help with comfort and toy fit.
- Practice wearing the harness solo before couples play to get familiar with the fit and adjustability.
- Try using a small bullet vibe in the built-in pocket to add external stimulation for both partners.
- For longer sessions, use a towel or cushion beneath the harness base to reduce front or pelvic pressure.