The Manage A Trois double-penetration harness and dildo set are designed for even penetration.

The thong-style harness has a built-in cock ring and includes 3 interchangeable O-rings (1.5" 2" rubber, 1.75" metal) to fit most flared dildos.

The adjustable straps fit up to 60" hips.

Manage A Trois features:

• Materials: Nylon webbing, nickel-free metal hardware, plastic hardware, brass hardware, nitrile O-ring, silicone dildo
• Can be used hands-free after initial placement
• Sportsheets Flare Dildo is included

Size and material:

• Dildo length: 5.75" / 14.61 cm
• O-ring sizes: 1.5″, 1.75″, and 2″ / 3.8 cm, 4.5 cm, and 5.1 cm
• Adjustable straps fit up to 60" / 152.4 cm hips

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This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite

Who is this harness and dildo set for?

The Manage A Trois harness is ideal for:

• Couples exploring double penetration or pegging, looking for a secure, comfortable harness with starter-friendly dildo included.
• Folks with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation—offering a reliable way to continue penetrative play.
• Strap-on beginners thanks to the simple thong design and adjustable fit that accommodates a variety of bodies.
• Gender-affirming play and trans-friendly access to intimacy and pleasure through penetrative roles.

How to use the Manage A Trois?

1. Choose your O-ring based on the dildo you intend to use—start with the included 1.75" metal ring for the Sportsheets Flare Dildo if unsure.
2. Slide the dildo through the O-ring so it sits securely with the flared base pressed against the ring.
3. Step into the thong-style harness or pull it up like underwear, then tighten the waist and thigh straps to comfortably secure the fit (up to 60" hips).
4. Connect a second toy to the built-in cock ring for double penetration or wear as-is for solo dildo play.
5. Apply water-based lubricant to dildo before use for smoother insertion and enhanced comfort.

Great positions to try:

• Doggy style: Gives control and great angles for both dildos during double penetration.
• Cowgirl: Lets the receiver set the depth and rhythm while keeping both toys aligned.
• Missionary: Offers frontal intimacy and full-body contact, ideal for newcomers.

How to clean and care for the Manage A Trois?

• Cleaning: Clean the silicone dildo with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner before and after each use. Wipe down the harness with a damp cloth; hand wash with mild soap if needed, then air dry.
• Drying: Ensure all parts are fully dry before storing to avoid mildew or material degradation.
• Lubricant compatibility: Use only water-based lubricants with the silicone dildo to preserve its integrity.
• Storage: Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep silicone dildo separate from other silicone toys to avoid surface reactivity.

Harness and dildo set practical use info:

• Versatility: The included dildo is easily swapped via interchangeable O-rings—use other compatible toys to expand your experience.
• Stimulation: Designed for partner-focused pleasure and hands-free penetration after initial placement.
• Accessibility: Can reduce strain for users with mobility in arms or hands—eliminates need to hold a dildo manually during play.

Additional information:

• Decreased sensation: Offers a way to maintain penetrative intimacy using a dildo when physical sensation or performance may be limited.
• Vaginal dryness: Apply water-based lubricant on the dildo and vagina/anus to prevent discomfort and enhance glide.
• Painful penetration: Consider trying gentler dildos or using buffer tools like the OhNut to control depth and manage comfort.

Special considerations when using Manage A Trois:

• Mobility requirements: Requires flexibility and balance to step into/thong-style harness and adjust straps.
• Dexterity: Users need to secure the dildo through the O-ring and pull straps to tighten.
• Reach: Must be able to reach hips and lower back for harness adjustments and placement of accessories.
• Charging: Not applicable, but may need assistance if adding remote-controlled vibrating dildos.