The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Night Blue is a lace and microfiber strap-on harness designed with both form and function in mind.

Its low-profile, lingerie-style build gives it a soft, barely-there feel, while the adaptable garter straps and stretchy waistband provide a snug, flexible fit. 

An open-back cutout adds a visual focal point without compromising comfort.

Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness features:

• Adjustable garter belts and a soft stretch waistband
• Fit that moves with the body
• Universal dildo compatibility 
• Open-back design
• Machine washable
• Dildo not included

Size and material:

• Available sizes: Medium, Extra Large and Extra Extra Large
• Fabric composition: 75% Nylon, 25% Elastane
• Lace composition: 90% Nylon, 10% Elastane

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite

Brings excitement, connection, and definitely stays charged and ready.

Who is this harness for?

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness is ideal for:

• Couples looking to explore strap-on play, pegging, or role reversal with comfort and sensual style.
• Trans and non-binary users who want affirming strap-on gear that feels intimate, sexy, and wearable under clothing or lingerie.
• People managing ED or PE looking to stay connected during partnered pleasure and experience more options for penetration.
• Folks with limited grip or mobility who want to control play with pelvic thrusting rather than hands or arms.

How to use the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness?

1. Choose a compatible dildo with a flared base to fit securely into the o-ring pouch front of the harness.
2. Step into the harness like underwear or pull it up gently if seated/lying down. Adjust garters and waistband for a firm, body-hugging fit.
3. Insert the dildo through the front panel opening, ensuring it sits snugly against your body.
4. Optional: Add lube to the dildo before use for easier penetration and enhanced comfort.
5. Double-check the fit—the harness should be tight enough to prevent wobbling without digging in.

Great positions to try:

• Doggy style: Gives strong pelvic control and deeper thrusting angles.
• Spooning: Great for slower rhythm and skin-to-skin closeness.
• Face-to-face (missionary or cowgirl): Increases intimacy with eye contact and touch.

How to clean and care for the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness?

• Cleaning: Machine wash on a gentle cycle with cool water or hand wash delicately. Use a mild detergent without bleach.
• Drying: Air dry flat or hang—do not tumble dry to preserve lace and elastic.
• Lubricant compatibility: Since the harness holds external toys, use water-based lubricant with your dildo or plug to prevent material wear.
• Storage: Store folded in a clean, dry drawer or lingerie bag, separate from silicone toys to avoid material transfer.

Harness practical use info:

• Versatility: Works for a wide range of penetration play, including pegging, queer sex, or role reversal.
• Stimulation: Can be worn with wearable dildos or those that provide internal stimulation to the harness wearer.
• Accessibility: Once adjusted, it stays in place securely—especially helpful for users with limited grip strength or arm range.

Additional information:

This might be suitable for folks who have trouble maintaining erection, experience premature ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction because it can be a great way to penetrate and prolong sex.

Also, this might be suitable for folks with limited mobility in arms/hands because it can provide a way to penetrate partner with a sex toy.

Special considerations when using Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness:

• Needs mobility and flexibility to put it on and use

User experience tips:

• Layer over lingerie to elevate the aesthetic—this harness has a sexy, soft vibe meant to be seen and felt.
• Check the o-ring stretch and toy base size before play—some larger bases may be too tight; test the fit with your fav dildo ahead of time.
• Try wearing solo to get used to how it feels and how movement affects placement before using it with a partner.
• Pair with a vibrating dildo or bullet vibe in the front pouch for extra clit or pubic stimulation while thrusting.
• Adjust garters loosely or remove entirely for more flexibility during vigorous movement.
• Keep a damp cloth nearby for quick wipe-down of your toy base if switching positions or sharing during same session.